A More Peaceful Language

Raise your hand if you've ever used any of the following expressions.He chickened out.People are such pigs.I want to get my ducks in a row.There's more than one way to skin a cat.We all have. I'm way more conscious than I used to be of the violence implicit in our everyday language, but I still slip up sometimes. The opening night of Main Street Vegan Academy, Tali and I were talking about how delicious the DF Mavens non-dairy ice cream is, and I wondered if it would be all right if I had a second helping. "Or would that make me a piggy?" I caught myself as soon as I said it, and felt especially mortified to have said such a thing in a room full of vegans!I suppose this seems like a non-issue to a person who still eats pigs, but for me—someone who has read of how intelligent and affectionate pigs are, and that they roll in the mud to keep cool because they don't have sweat glands—this was definitely an unconscious thing to say.  I want my language to reflect my values. I want to avoid saying or thinking words like "hate" and "kill" and "shoot," and the unpleasant expressions mentioned above, as best I can.If you're interested in thinking more deeply about our language choices and how they reflect our attitudes about animals and food, Colleen Patrick-Goudreau did a podcast back in 2006 called The Language of Meat. She even gets into the etymologies of meat-related words we take for granted. (A more recent episode on the subject is Verbal Vivisection: How Euphemisms, Oxymorons, and Doublespeak Disguise Our Violence Against Animals.)I've been wanting to call a lot of things "bullshit" lately. It's a word that's been trickier to let go of, since in my in-person and online conversations about veganism I'm placing so much emphasis on seeing and telling the truth. "Baloney" is a word that makes me laugh, so it doesn't feel like an appropriate substitute. On the other hand, when I remember what is IN a slice of lunchmeat—hormones, antibiotics, lethal bacteria—the word "baloney" (all right—"bologna") fills me with indignation. Which is exactly how I feel when I want to use the word "bullshit."This isn't as "nit-picky" a topic as it might at first seem. Becoming more compassionate and aware human beings entails modifying our behavior on every level—and that often means changing what comes out of our mouths, not just what goes in.